The wicket has fallen...

A lot has changed in my life since my last post....my parents who had let me off the hook for another year, changed that stance and cam back heavily and after 3hours of emotional third degree..i agreed to get married...I use to think that i am one who is blessed with extraordinary convincing power, since i have been able to avoid marriage for three years now...now i think parents has the tools to convince you whenever they want if u are not that rebel types...with all said and done, i have agreed to get married, but this status has come up with its own set of problems... the biggest issue in my life right now is...how to know if the girl i m going to meet is the girl for me...u know its kinda tricky since u cant judge a personin just one meeting...for the first time in my life i am nervous and afraid as well...one wrong judgement can cost both of us heavily...even after thinking a lot abt my conversation with her...i am still not able to chalk out a plan, what we will talk abt...

So what i will do is i will put down everything here that i want my prespective wife to know, if i am lucky she will read it...

My life has three aspect, carrer,family and fun...i will take them one by one...
1. Carrer: The reason why i was apprehensive abt getting married was that i have a plan to do my MBA anytime soon...now since he city from which i do my mba may be an IT hub or it may be some small town, so the point is since she would be working , so chances are that she may have to stay at different location then me..now how would she react to it...i dont have any idea...thats my first concern.
2. Family : Like everybody else i love my mom and dad a lot, and whatever people say it will take a lot for a girl to accept somebody elses family as her family, I would say its difficult for a boy as well...although its social prob that we guys are brought up in an envoirment where the girl makes adjustment, i know as a person i also have to infuse into her family as second son, but that effort will be insignificant as compared to her, coming back to point, i am not sure how a girl is gonna like this funda of staying with parents, in case she is independent. So thats another worry....
3. Fun: Now my biggest problem is i cant stop smiling ( I will be more honest its closer to grinning) and i am known to pull everybody's leg. Since judging a person is difficult in one meeting, i am not sure if she has a sense of humor or not. and simply dont like people who has that serious face...being serious in life is diff from looking serious....

i am not sure if i can send this to any girl but i seriously wish girls read it....its a dilemma every man faces...its not just tough for you gals, its tough for people like us as well...saying yes or no ain't that easy, its just not you feeling embarassed but the other person feeling humiliated as well....
May god spare me from doing this....

Why should i get married...

On my first birthday after i got my job..which happened to be my 22nd birthday...my parents asked me the most difficult question for a bachelor, "When do i plan to settle down" in other word when i am going to get married...since i had not thought about this marriage thing...so just said "lets wait for two years and then we can think what to do". Last month when i turned 25 my parents again said "we had enough of you, now either you tell us about girl in your life(If any??) or we will let you know the date and venue of ur marriage"...so after 3 years i realized that situation is pretty much the same...i am still not sure whether i am ready to get married or not...When i think about my life ahead all i can think is of doing my MBA...having a wife and kids do not fit into my future plan...plz dont tell this to my mom and dad, otherwise they will tell me the date and venue of my marriage tomorrow...after having a lot of reasoning they have agreed to wait for another year(Thank god for that)..but why parents are in such a hurry to get their kids married?? why they cant let us enjoy our single status....lets see if i can put down all the reason why parents want their kids to get married at the earliest....

1) Now you are earning well and pretty settled in your job so whats better then getting married....now what is this cant i earn for myself...
2) All your friends are getting married why dont you......let them why should i,
3) This girl is a nice match...you wont get better if you delay it further.......helooo are all girls moving back to Venus in a year,,
4) Because we want you to be......now thats a bit too strong statement.
5) Will make you more mature and responsible.....what whole world couldn't do in 25 years....
6) You are getting older...i have been doing this for years..;)


Thats enough i guess...

My first blog..

My first post...After postponing it for near a year...here i am writing my first blog...u must be wondering whats the big deal...nowadays everybody is turning blogger, thats the in thing right now...but there is more to my blogging then just this...
lets see why i am writing this blog....

1) What i said above...everybody is writing so why not join the party....
2) I have a problem sharing my exact thoughts....i am often equivocal in my expression of thoughts...so blog might provide me an opportunity to express myself freely...
3) I am too lazy to do anything physical...i mean sports wgarah....
4) Its the cheapest way to keep myself busy...having girl friend is an expensive proposition...
5) This is one place where one can write anything without worrying abt anything else...

Now these reasons are good enough to push me to write this blog...lets see how long i will be able to take it forward before it also falls to my laziness...