A lot has changed in my life since my last post....my parents who had let me off the hook for another year, changed that stance and cam back heavily and after 3hours of emotional third degree..i agreed to get married...I use to think that i am one who is blessed with extraordinary convincing power, since i have been able to avoid marriage for three years now...now i think parents has the tools to convince you whenever they want if u are not that rebel types...with all said and done, i have agreed to get married, but this status has come up with its own set of problems... the biggest issue in my life right now is...how to know if the girl i m going to meet is the girl for me...u know its kinda tricky since u cant judge a personin just one meeting...for the first time in my life i am nervous and afraid as well...one wrong judgement can cost both of us heavily...even after thinking a lot abt my conversation with her...i am still not able to chalk out a plan, what we will talk abt...
So what i will do is i will put down everything here that i want my prespective wife to know, if i am lucky she will read it...
My life has three aspect, carrer,family and fun...i will take them one by one...
1. Carrer: The reason why i was apprehensive abt getting married was that i have a plan to do my MBA anytime soon...now since he city from which i do my mba may be an IT hub or it may be some small town, so the point is since she would be working , so chances are that she may have to stay at different location then me..now how would she react to it...i dont have any idea...thats my first concern.
2. Family : Like everybody else i love my mom and dad a lot, and whatever people say it will take a lot for a girl to accept somebody elses family as her family, I would say its difficult for a boy as well...although its social prob that we guys are brought up in an envoirment where the girl makes adjustment, i know as a person i also have to infuse into her family as second son, but that effort will be insignificant as compared to her, coming back to point, i am not sure how a girl is gonna like this funda of staying with parents, in case she is independent. So thats another worry....
3. Fun: Now my biggest problem is i cant stop smiling ( I will be more honest its closer to grinning) and i am known to pull everybody's leg. Since judging a person is difficult in one meeting, i am not sure if she has a sense of humor or not. and simply dont like people who has that serious face...being serious in life is diff from looking serious....
i am not sure if i can send this to any girl but i seriously wish girls read it....its a dilemma every man faces...its not just tough for you gals, its tough for people like us as well...saying yes or no ain't that easy, its just not you feeling embarassed but the other person feeling humiliated as well....
May god spare me from doing this....
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